Cooperating With God and One Another

The Alsbury Playbook

March 08, 2026

Summary

This sermon concludes a series on church values by emphasizing the importance of cooperation - both with one another and with the Holy Spirit. JMT summarize the seven practical tools (slides/infographics) designed to help church members move beyond just hearing sermons to actually living out their faith. These tools cover areas like spirit empowerment, authentic family relationships, biblical practices, compassionate reach, and building trust-based relationships. The main message is that transformation happens through intentional routines and relationships rather than waiting for profound spiritual experiences. We are challenged to use these practical tools to cooperate with God's work in their lives and to build genuine relationships both within the church and with their neighbors.

Intro Prayer

Heavenly Father, as we gather together in this small group, we ask that You would open our hearts and minds to what You want to teach us today. Help us to be receptive to Your Spirit's leading and to one another's insights. We pray that You would use this time to draw us closer to You and to each other. Give us the courage to be honest about where we are in our spiritual journey and the wisdom to know how to take our next steps with You. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Ice Breaker

What's one tool or gadget you own that came with instructions, and did you read the manual or use the quick guide to figure it out?

Key Verses

Ephesians 5:15-21


Questions

Looking at the 'Spirit Empowerment' concept, how would you answer the question: 'What does the Lord want to do in me and through me?' What might be holding you back from fully cooperating with God's work in your life?

The sermon discusses concentric circles of relationships (self, family, primary group, church). Which circle do you think you need to focus on investing in right now, and why?

What's the difference between waiting for profound spiritual experiences versus developing regular spiritual routines? Share about a routine or practice that has helped shape you to be more like Jesus.

JMT emphasized building trust-based relationships rather than treating people as projects. Can you think of a time when you felt like someone's project versus when you felt genuinely cared for? What was the difference?

Regarding the 'wall of self-preservation,' what are some things you might be afraid to lose or trying to prove that keep you from building deeper relationships in the church?

How does the question 'What scripture is shaping me today?' differ from just reading or studying the Bible? What scripture has been particularly shaping you recently?

The big idea is to 'cooperate with one another and with the Holy Spirit.' What do you think are the biggest obstacles to cooperation in church relationships, and how can we overcome them?


Life Application

This week, choose one of the seven tools/values mentioned in the sermon (Spirit Empowerment, Authentic Family, Biblical Practices, or Compassionate Reach) and intentionally apply it to your life. Identify one specific routine or relationship where you can cooperate more fully with the Holy Spirit's work. Share your choice with someone in your group for accountability and prayer support.

Key Takeaways

Transformation happens through intentional cooperation with the Holy Spirit and with one another, not just through hearing sermons

Spiritual growth comes from developing regular routines and practices rather than waiting for profound experiences

Building trust-based relationships within the church is essential for effectively reaching our neighbors

We must lower our walls of self-preservation to develop authentic relationships in the church family

The Bible's proper function is to shape us, requiring both good interpretation and practical application


Ending Prayer

Lord Jesus, thank You for this time together and for the reminder that You have called us to cooperate with You and with one another. Help us to be people who don't just hear Your word but who are shaped and transformed by it. Give us the courage to lower our walls of self-preservation and build authentic relationships within our church family. Empower us by Your Spirit to develop the routines and practices that will make us more like You. And help us to see our neighbors not as projects but as people You love deeply. May we leave here committed to taking practical steps in cooperation with Your Spirit's work in our lives. In Your precious name we pray, Amen.